Ronel & Rudie
We are getting married on 7 January 2021
Groom & Bride
Where there is great love, there are always miracles.” ~ Willa Cather.
This is a love story of a man who guided a woman to a table. The man she dreamt of her whole life.
A scorpio choosing a sagittarius, exchanging normal for a crazy world of constant changes.
It is in all the million tiny things, when you added them all up, that it is found that he is absolutely perfect for her.
In all the world, there is no heart like his. In all the world, there is no love for him like hers.
He calls her his Queen Bee Vinkel , two names in one with reference to her uniqueness for him.
As much as the Queen Bee in nature is unique in her population, so is this unique iron woman.
To him she is his life’s compass, with the ability to care and guide through whichever storms life may brings.
The afrikaans language has a saying “they are like ‘vinkel en koljander” which refers to how closely alike they are and which is exactly the nature of this woman.
Close and protective with an unconditional and nonjudgemental love unique to find in todays world.
It could have been a blonde moment or destiny with our meeting 11 years ago. My story very different from his. But we do agree we met in Durban at a conference when I was looking for a place to sit. Our path’s colliding for a short while. Life is interesting and it took us away from each other, each on his/her path. Facebook stalking in the latter years, a chat here and there – then a coincidental visit to his hometown….
and I never left
7 January 2021, 5:30 pm
Handfasting is a traditional Irish practice that refers to the making fast of a pledge by the joining of hands.
Instead of confetti we will be asking our friend and family to participate in the handfasting with us.
Bring a ribbon, scarf or piece of rope that you associate with us. Add to this a message with your rendition of memories and wish for joining us together. The message will go in a box and the ribbon, scarf or rope will be used by you to unite us together by tying of hands and well wishes.
Below is a video that included a preview of what to expect and how this will be done.
7 January 2021, 6 pm
Canapé & Gin Bar
To Gin or not to Gin………….silly question
Build your own gin and pair it with a choice of Canapés
7 January 2021, 7 pm – 12 am
Let us be Merry
Formal sit down candlelight dinner under the trees of Glenwood. Each course is paired with a Glenwood wine.
Guests have a choice between Menu 1 or Menu 2. Please ensure you make your selection on RSVP.
Some chats, dancing and cake to follow.
Cash bar available.
When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible
When Harry Met Sally
Menu Option 1
Roast Lamb Shank. Rosemary baby potato skewers drizzled with garlic butter. Caramelised baby carrots.
Garnish: Mango & red onion salsa with balsamic reduction.
Menu Option 2
Beef Fillet stuffed with mushroom and marrow. Mushroom Sauce. Baby potato skewers drizzled with garlic butter. Caramelised baby carrots.
Garnish: Figs & red onion salsa.
Every moment I spend with you is like a beautiful dream come true. I love you in the morning, in the middle of the day, in the hours we’re together and the hours we are away.
Kindly RSVP using the form below on or before 31 October 2020.
Every individual needs to RSVP and choose their preferred menu.
Kids not included due to limited space and cost.
Ronel & Rudie
7 January 2021